Mistress & slave dating · UK
Find a Mistress across the UK
Dominant women and the men who long to serve them, from Devon to Durham. Discreet, verified, and free to join.
British, discreet, and properly into it.
Looking to find a Mistress in the UK? Mistress Slaves (mistressslaves.com) is a dating site made only for the female-led lifestyle, where dominant women and the men who long to serve them meet, from Devon to Durham. It's a place for relationships, not a directory of paid sessions. Joining costs nothing, ID and video checks are free, and photos stay private to members.
Finding a Mistress in Britain usually means wading through apps where nobody admits what they want. Here it's the opposite: the women on this site expect to lead, and the men expect to be led, so the awkward first conversation has already happened before you say hello.
Our UK members tend to value discretion, and we respect that. Your profile shows what you choose, photos stay blurred to visitors, and you can take things at your own pace, whether that's a long chat over a few weeks or a coffee somewhere familiar.
Curious but new to it? You're in good company. Plenty of British members joined to learn, and the ones who've been at it for years are usually glad to explain the basics to someone honest.
Real kink, proper manners, no time-wasters.
Members across the UK
Some of our British members. Faces stay blurred until you join, and joining is free.
Join free to see members across the UK.
Where members are
From Devon to Durham
Members are spread right across England. These are the counties where you'll find the most of them right now, and the list grows as people join.
- Hampshire
- Staffordshire
- Lancashire
- Devon
- Norfolk
- Tyne and Wear
- South Yorkshire
- West Sussex
- Northamptonshire
- Lincolnshire
- Greater London
- Dorset
- Durham
- Berkshire
- Cambridgeshire
- Cheshire
Getting noticed, the British way
Put your best foot forward
A blank profile gets passed over, it's as simple as that. Add a photo, say what you're after and what you'd never do. A few honest lines beat a page of fantasy.
Be clear about your limits
Spell them out early. A good Mistress wants to know where your lines are before she decides where to take you, and it saves you both a wasted evening.
Stay on the site to begin with
If someone wants your mobile or WhatsApp straight away, slow down. Chat here first; if anyone seems dodgy, report them and our team will look into it.
Safety
Checked, verified, kept honest.
- Free ID verification, with a badge on your profile once it's done.
- Video checks with a moderator for anyone who'd rather not send documents.
- Profiles validated by hand by our team.
- Fakes removed when members report them.
Keeping scammers out costs us a good deal of time and money, and it's worth it: you get to concentrate on the people who are genuinely here.
If something goes wrong
Who to tell in the UK
Use the report button on their profile first, and our team will go through what they've sent you.
Lost money, or being threatened? Ring your bank straight away, then report it to Report Fraud, which replaced Action Fraud and covers England, Wales and Northern Ireland. If you live in Scotland, ring Police Scotland on 101 instead.
Finding a Mistress in the UK: your questions
Is Mistress Slaves free to join in the UK?
It is. Setting up a profile, browsing and a few messages a day cost nothing. Upgrade to VIP later if you'd like more messaging and sharper searches.
Are there Mistresses near me in the UK?
Our British members are spread across England, from Hampshire and Devon in the south to Lancashire, Durham and Tyne and Wear in the north. Search by distance once you've joined and you'll see who's within reach.
Must my face be on my profile?
Not at all, though a clear photo gets far more replies. Plenty of members start with something tasteful and share more once they trust someone.
What should I avoid?
Anyone asking for money, gift cards or your mobile number within a few messages. Keep chatting here until you know them better, and report anything that feels off. Our guide to spotting a fake Mistress walks through the usual tricks.
Your county, your Mistress.
Join free, fill in a few honest lines, and see who's near you.
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