Mistress & slave dating · South Africa

Mistress & Slave Dating in South Africa

For women who take charge and the men who long to obey. Join early, stand out sooner, and it's free to join.

A woman's bare foot with red-painted toenails, against black

Mistress and slave dating, now in South Africa.

Mistress dating in South Africa starts here. Mistress Slaves (mistressslaves.com) was built purely for women who take charge and the men who want to obey them, and South Africans are only beginning to join. Signing up costs nothing, verification is free, and visitors can't see your photos.

Finding a dominant woman on a mainstream app in South Africa is close to impossible: nobody says what they're really after, and the conversation stalls before it starts. This site is built for the opposite: dominant women and submissive men, each saying so from the first message.

We're just getting started here, so early members stand out. Set up your profile now, with a picture and something real about you, and you'll be ready as more South Africans join. In the meantime, members from the UK, Australia and further afield are online and happy to chat.

Tell people what excites you and where your boundaries sit. That kind of honesty is what starts the right conversations.

Be one of the first. Get noticed first.

Members from around the world

Members from the other countries we cover. Photos stay blurred until you join, and joining is free.

How to get noticed

Complete your profile

Photos and a proper description get replies; an empty profile gets skipped. Introduce yourself and say what you're hoping to find.

Be clear about your limits

A good Mistress wants your boundaries first. Write them down and you'll save everyone time.

Stay on the site

Anyone after your cellphone number, airtime or money? Stop there. Keep it on the site, and report anyone suspicious.

Safety

Verified members, real people.

  • ID verification at no cost, shown as a badge.
  • Live video verification with a moderator instead of documents.
  • Hand-checked profiles from our team.
  • Reported fakes deleted after review.

A great deal of effort goes into keeping scammers away, so the members you talk to are who they say they are.

If something goes wrong

Who to call in South Africa

Report the profile with the button on it, and our team will go over what was said.

If you've paid someone or they're threatening you, phone your bank's fraud line first, then report it to SAPS and the Southern African Fraud Prevention Service. When you do meet, choose somewhere busy and public, and tell a friend your plans.

Mistress dating in South Africa: questions

Is it free to join in South Africa?

Yes. Creating a profile and browsing cost nothing, and you get some free messages every day. VIP is optional.

Are there many South African members yet?

Not yet: we're just getting started in South Africa, which means early members get noticed first. Members from other countries are on the site now and happy to chat.

Is it private?

You choose what's on your profile, and photos stay blurred to visitors. Hold back your cellphone number and other details until trust is built.

How do I spot a scammer?

Anyone asking for money, airtime, vouchers or your cellphone number early on. Keep chatting on the site, and report them so our team can review and remove them.

Get in early, get noticed.

Join free, add a few honest lines, and be ready as South Africa grows.

Free to join · 18+ only

Mistress SlavesFree to join · 18+ only

Join free